There is something about an ending that evokes feelings of completion, mixed with a spoonful of regret, and sprinkled with the excitement or anxiety of the next beginning. Whether it is the end of the week, the season, or the year, the simple act of an end calls us to reflect on the journey towards that end. Where did we come from? What did we do? Why did we do it? What would we do again? What would we leave behind? And what would we take with us into the next journey?
There is a term in education called wait-time. This is where the teacher or mentor gives their pupil wait time to reflect before giving an answer. The outcome of having wait-time is a deeper, more reflective response. Or an answer that has greater meaning to that individual. At the end of the year, we need to give ourselves wait-time. Time to develop the deeper answers to the questions that may have arose throughout the year.
At the end of the year–it’s not entirely about a particular religion, or how long/short the daylight is, or what kind of gift you give, or the food you enjoy. It’s also about letting this time of year remind you that there is something more, something greater than yourself. that you can feel a part of. Something that can support you in becoming a happier, better person, and maybe help you make the world a better place too.
Ultimately that is what this season of darkness, or Winter is about. Reflection, Contemplation, and hope. That soon, as if on clock-work, our light will come back.
